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Developments
making you feel low are part of your existence. They invariably come to you -
and sometimes come to haunt you.
Try hard but
you are bound to feel so - its frequency depends on how you tackle it - and the
first step (or the first offensive) that you need to take on this path - is - don't
let the development make you feel that it is some type of curse. Doing so is
half the battle won.
You feel
letdown by various reasons. But the share that causes maximum mental unease and
stress is external - driven by and given by others - and you need to keep
yourself away from the crowd in such circumstances.
One needs to
learn and nurture the practice of winning over the tide - gradually and
effectively.
You must
keep in mind that you should not totally disregard something or some
development that drags you down sending your soul in a nowhere zone because it
has important elements to learn from.
You miss an
important opportunity to learn life defining lessons when you dismiss any
negative development in your life without giving it some time to ponder over.
You did no
wrong or you were caught on the wrong side should only prevail after you have
given the development enough time. After thinking it over, you may come to the
conclusion that you did no wrong and there is nothing to feel gloomy about.
Alternatively,
especially when the development involves a social setup with multiple people in
fray, you may still feel low in spite of the fact that you came to find that
you were not wrong. It happens because you start thinking about what 'more
others' would think.
Try not to
think that - or try to overcome that - for - if you were not wrong for what you
had been targeted - your mental composure, if sustained, will make you the
winner in the long run.
When you
assess and come to the act of brashly disregarding the negative happening even
if you know you were wrong, you move one step ahead in the quagmire that may
derail your life one day. You have to very careful about that precipitation.
Any negative
development in your life should have this sole purpose - that what you could learn
from it - that how it can better your thoughts. Yes, it's painful. Yes, preaching is always easy. But
friends, your experiences also tell so.
Think it
like this - and it will further help - that one has no option in life but to
fight back - that no one helps beyond few words of sympathy - that beyond a
point, your sad state of mind is seen as your weakness and people start keeping
their distances.