The best way to know the self is feeling oneself at the moments of reckoning. The feeling of being alone, just with your senses, may lead you to think more consciously. More and more of such moments may sensitize ‘you towards you’, towards others. We become regular with introspection and retrospection. We get ‘the’ gradual connect to the higher self we may name Spirituality or God or just a Humane Conscious. We tend to get a rhythm again in life. We need to learn the art of being lonely in crowd while being part of the crowd. A multitude of loneliness in mosaic of relations! One needs to feel it severally, with conscience, before making it a way of life. One needs to live several such lonely moments. One needs to live severallyalone.

Sunday, 14 October 2012



Getting up every day looking at the life you think of creating; you think of innovating; you think of reworking; you think of rejuvenating; you think of thinking again on, to make a day that is going to be your day, to make a time that is going to be your prime, to make a life that is going to be all your stride.

Life is sum total of the logical aspirations that find their genesis in your highs as well as your gloom.

It’s always easy to be preachy and it’s easier to dismiss things in the name of deliberate or uncalled for preaching.

It’s always easy to ignore logic in your highs and it’s easier to kill the relevant logic in the name of triviality.

But if life is about being ‘you’ and living your ideals, it is also about living the learning it bestows you with.

You need to be aware of or try to be aware of not following the wrong notions in the name of impulses or vibes only.

If life has not to be analytical; it must not be overtly observational and thus thriftily practical as well.

Life is sum total of the experiences you assimilate sifting the logic away from the rubbish and thus building on the learning that you come across at different crossroads.

As you grow up and start realizing a pattern in your consciousness, you try to build who you are, who I am, who we are; you try to build a world the way you see it, the way you thought to see it.

Puritanically, when you are at the best of it, you might fail to see the logic of some of the questions you throw on your ‘self’ to reflect on; the questions that work to tell you to work on some of your very own illogic; to build ‘you’ out of you.

If life has to be about being non-compromising with your ideals, at the same time, it must never be about being adamant about the changes you need to bring about in your methodology to achieve your ideals based the learnings of the life.

Life is the sum total of your attitude towards your ‘ideals’ and how you make your existence one with the learnings to realize them. 

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