A
lonely journey, a standalone moment, a simple incident, can sometime tell you
what you were always looking to know.
Life
is just not about existing. It goes beyond the existentialism. It calls for
building on your own credentials. It calls for fighting and fighting to win.
It
calls for creating your own set of rules where you don’t lose questions and
where you don’t act impulsively for answers.
Answers,
sometimes, they are never there; sometimes, they cannot be.
Answers,
sometimes, they take time to get into your stream, to make it to your psyche.
Answers,
sometimes, they are there only, but you cannot see.
In
lonely moments, when you are just with your ‘self’, sometimes, you come to
realise how cruel you were to torture your soul for the answers that didn’t
need any questioning at the very outset.
Or,
they can tell you it was better to reconcile and co-exist with a question.
Life
throws problems to test your mettle and to tell you the intent of the presence
of people in your sphere of life.
When
you make a life socially, you are many ‘persons’, interacting with the ‘people’
who form your social circle that includes your family, too.
The
answers that you seek, originate from your own existence as well as from the
existence of these very ‘people’ in your sphere of life.
You
might not get all the answers but you must seek the root of the questioning
that originates the propositions.
You
must strive for answers that your own ‘self’ creates, for they make the principal
ingredients of your identity.
You
must always be judicious while seeking answers that the other ‘people’ (except
your family members) in your sphere of life create for you because many are not
going to hold any relevance except dragging you down.
You
come to realise the value of relevance of such questions in the lonely moments
when you can question your ‘self’ seeking the absence of the answers and a
simple moment of afterthought tells you the root of the questioning itself is
already uprooted.
In
the standalone moments of self-reckoning you come to know the questions were to
be seen as the passing moments on your existential scale and you needed to be
free of impulses to be in line with the intent of the answers.